Assalamualaikum semua

Before this I was watching
Reality TV series
"Mentari 2- Ray of Hope" on Suria
And I was quite intrigued by that episode
Not that I experienced it
But it made me to just sit down
and think back
Pardon me for today's extremely long post

Well, the episode, to summarise it
simply shows about Jealousy
Extreme Jealousy
Two cases. Paranoid Jealousy & Morbid Jealousy

There was this guy assuming the role of Dani
A guy who's attached with Rika, a polytechic student
Dani was serving National Service
And due to his short temperament
He constantly texted Rika
And when there's no reply
he'd be full of suspicion
thinking that Rika is out having a dandy great time with other guys
When in actual fact, she didn't

His jealousy turned to paranoia
One moment he would text
"I'm booking out today. Kau habis skola kul brape?"
No reply
He would then text
"Kau kat mane skrg? Did you receive my msg?"
No reply
Paranoia struck. " Aku jumpe kau skrg!!"

So he met Rika at her campus
when she was like studying with her friends
and at the same time laughing
Not a crime kan?
Then Dani was like
"Eh kau study ke pe? Then aku nampak kau masih ketawe2?"
"eh asal kau tak reply message aku? Kau tahu kan aku book out hari ni?"
In truth, Rika left her phone at home. So she couldn't possibly know right?
She tried explaining, only to be dimaki-hamun. Like wth right?

Paranoia turned to morbid jealousy
Dani didn't trust his girlfriend
He abused her hit her until she got traumatised
On top of that, to prove his affection,
he even slit his wrist! Like super wth right?

Just from that, we can see
how jealousy, harmless as it may be
can turn into something vile, to an extent of abuse
Dani just couldn;t see his importance in Rika's perspective
So he resorted to constant checks and tails
to soothe his otherwise morbid jealousy.
Rika was in this case a victim
For as much as she loved him, she feared him
leaving her traumatised and eventually leaving him

Such cases of jealousy should be dissipated.
In my opinion, a healthy relationship stems from TRUST
Trust towards each other.
If you trust him/her and you know he/she trust you
then there's no need for jealousy to arise right?

Dani couldn't see the fact that he meant a lot to Rika
Thus, she tried to be patient, hoping things would be better
One can't expect to be treated like a fugitive in a relationship
Constantly hounded by the partner
It just ain't fair and it's unhealthy
An unhealthy stage in a relationship will just cause
both parties to be hurt.
Importance toward partner=Trust=No suspicion=No jealousy

So that episode really sort of make me think
How important is someone to you?
Would you go to such an extent as the above to prove it?
Or could you just not say a word knowing that deep inside, you have the answer?

Sorry for the lenghty post ar.
But yea, just food for thought on my side
Thus, wanting to share it with all of you
Hahaa! I can be like a counsellor or something right? *laughs*

So this marks the end of my long post.
Enjoy your day everyone(:
& remember that there's always Hope, even in your darkest moments


Assalamualaikum Warahmatullah Hiwabarakatuh